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A deadly shooting in Dublin in the middle of the day at a busy park over the weekend appears to have been preceded by years of troubled family dynamics and allegations of abuse, according to local family court documents that shed more light on the circumstances leading up to the homicide that is capturing national attention.
Jonathan McKinsey, 40, was pronounced dead at the scene at Dublin Sports Grounds Saturday afternoon, with his mother-in-law Shili Chen and father-in-law Shouyong Zhang now in custody at Santa Rita Jail as the primary suspects in the shooting death.
McKinsey’s death came in the wake of a flurry of court filings between him and his wife Candice Jang in the months prior, which started when she filed for a restraining order that led to related criminal charges in October 2025 against McKinsey for child abuse and endangerment. He filed for divorce and a restraining order of his own less than two months later that December.
Authorities had not revealed a suspected motive in the shooting case as of Tuesday evening, nor had they alleged that Jang was involved in the brazen midday shooting that her parents are suspected of. The murder case and continuing investigation by Dublin Police Services have garnered headlines on both coasts; McKinsey worked remotely from the Bay Area for the New York Times, as director of engineering, games player experience.
The dual domestic violence restraining orders were the subject of an Aug. 23 pre-trial order for the two parties to meet and confer before a three-day trial scheduled for this December in their divorce case. Both orders were granted by a judge on Dec. 16 the same day McKinsey filed for divorce.
In a supplemental statement filed Aug. 24, Jang called allegations in McKinsey’s previous restraining order request against her “sweeping and false”, specifically his characterization of her as a “practiced liar” who physically and emotionally abused him and their children.
Pointing to the misdemeanor abuse criminal charges filed against McKinsey last year after Jang went to the police station with domestic violence allegations, Jang said last month that her now-late husband poised “serious and violent safety concerns”.
“Yet now Jonathan portrays himself as the victim and me as the dangerous parent,” Jang wrote in August.
Those two charges – which McKinsey had not been convicted of, as of the time of his death – consist of allegations that he slapped one of their three children and left another in the house unattended.
McKinsey subsequently denied the first allegation and alleged that the second was a “set up” from Jang, who he said took two of their children to the police station with her to make the report and left the youngest at home without his knowledge. Upon investigation, police determined that the toddler was unattended at the family’s Dublin home.
In his restraining order request, McKinsey outlined a series of his own allegations of abuse over the course of the couple’s relationship, which started in 2008 according to Jang.
Jang noted in her August statement that the couple had met prior to McKinsey’s gender transition over a decade ago, while pointing to two cases in which he’d been hospitalized for suicide attempts in 2009 and 2010, both after she tried to initiate breakups.
McKinsey referenced one of those instances in his restraining order request last year, saying that the 2010 incident was spurred when Jang allegedly “told me I should kill myself, because no one would want to be with someone as ‘f***ed up and trans’ like me”.
“I did attempt suicide after this,” McKinsey wrote.
Although Jang noted that she had not been employed since 2010 and that her husband was the sole breadwinner, McKinsey alleged in December that his wife “has had complete control over me for many years, and is capable of inflicting great harm”.
“I truly believe she would hurt or even kill them if she believed there was any possibility of me having the children in my custody and care,” McKinsey said last year.
McKinsey alleged numerous concerns about how the couple’s children were being taken care of by his stay-at-home wife, ranging from verbal and physical abuse to more mundane topics such as a late bedtime and the children not getting breakfast until “well after noon most days”.
“When I protested about any of this, she threatened me with harm or said she would call the police and tell them I was hurting our children,” McKinsey said, adding that it was “because she was the mom, and she knew best”.
That allegation is despite the couple’s attempt to have a child via in vitro fertilization in 2024, with McKinsey carrying the pregnancy and giving birth prematurely to a baby that soon died.
He alleges that Jang threw a cup at his stomach during the pregnancy, and that she later pressured him to lift heavy boxes during a move last year, despite having hired movers, while he was “22 weeks pregnant and suffering severe nausea”.
McKinsey said that he began bleeding shortly later, then gave birth to the couple’s son conceived with an IVF embryo from Jang. Although born alive, McKinsey said that the infant died approximately one hour later.
While McKinsey said he believed their son’s death was caused in part by moving heavy objects allegedly at his wife’s demand, he alleged that she told him it was because of his “f***ed up genetics”, and that she did not want to attempt IVF again.
McKinsey said the relationship had raised numerous alarm bells during his pregnancy, but noted that he had “nowhere to go and limited options as a pregnant transgender man”.
McKinsey alleged that he experienced physical and emotional abuse from his wife on approximately a weekly basis, with grizzly accusations such as being beaten with a frying pan until he agreed to let her feed him a cockroach from the kitchen floor, and resuscitating a cat who had stopped breathing after allegedly being drowned in a bucket by Jang.
McKinsey alleged that Jang attempted to pull a drainage bulb off of him while he was recovering from a double mastectomy, and that Jang’s father punched him in the chest as he was recovering from the procedure.
Both parties accused each other of emotionally abusing Jang’s mother, with McKinsey alleging that his wife had “also convinced her mother to attempt suicide”.
McKinsey said last year that his fear of Jang stemmed in part from an alleged pattern in which she had “gotten revenge” on former partners, in one case by allegedly reporting an ex-boyfriend to immigration authorities for false terrorism claims, leading him to lose a job offer from Microsoft and be deported to India.
In response to a question on the restraining order request asking if he believed that Jang had access to firearms, McKinsey checked the “don’t know” box last year. Jang had checked “no” on hers.
Overall, McKinsey alleged that Jang “controlled me and isolated me from friends and family” and that his life was upended with frequent late night fights that he alleges were often spurred by false accusations of infidelity on his part.
After a trip to the Alameda County Fair in 2018, McKinsey alleged that his wife “falsely accused me of cheating on her with one of the moms there,” who he had “only spoke briefly and platonically to”.
“Candice became enraged and refused to leave my room until I apologized,” McKinsey wrote.
Both husband and wife reported in multiple court filings that the overnight arguments were despite them having slept in separate rooms for a number of years.
After a 2017 incident in which McKinsey said Jang accused him of having an affair with a coworker, and an alleged physical altercation left him with cuts from a broken mirror, he said he deleted all of his social media accounts, and “ultimately left my job for one with less women” because of his wife’s “unreasonable jealousy”.
After cutting off his social media presence, McKinsey said he believed Jang was impersonating him on the internet, pointing to a message a friend had received by someone with his name that said “f***ed you.” He said he later developed a safe word for family and friends to ensure his messages were authentic.
In her restraining order request last year, Jang repeated allegations that McKinsey was violent towards the children and her, pointing to a 2019 incident in which he had allegedly grabbed her arm and left a bruise, and a 2010 incident in which he allegedly grabbed her by the arms then “dropped me”, which she said resulted in a fractured vertebra.
Jang said in last year’s restraining order request that “Jonathan caused me physical and emotional harm, disturbing my peace by preventing me from sleeping” during a 3-1/2-day fight that she said had occurred recently.
She brought forward additional allegations in last month’s supplemental filing, alleging that McKinsey had threatened to kill her and her parents and adamantly denying all of McKinsey’s allegations against her.
Jang alleged last month that McKinsey’s “response to virtually everything is to blame someone else,” and that he was exhibiting patterns of DARVO (an acronym for deny, avoid, and reverse victim and offender).
The most recent filing in the couple’s divorce case – which had been set for a hearing Friday – was mailed from a Pleasanton law firm to multiple parties on Sept. 24, two days before McKinsey’s death. Proof of service was recorded by the court on Monday, two days after his death.
Chen and Zhang, both 77-year-old Dublin residents, were scheduled for arraignment on murder and other charges Wednesday morning at the East County Hall of Justice in Dublin.
Parents-in-law accused of killing Dublin man, New York Times staffer at sports parkSeptember 27, 2026 5:51 pm
